Can You Hear Me!!?? Well i dont care, I want you to listen...
So yeah, I have an online Communications class! [whoop whoop] and in my lesson we are learning about listening skills. There is definitely a difference between listening and hearing. I find it important that we should listen to someone when they are talking to us. They think of us highly enough to talk to us, we should show them mad respect!
I think the main problem with us listening is that our mind wanders. We always thinking about what we could be doing, what we plan on eating, what we forgot to do, yadda yadda yadda! Right?? Well, I know I do!
...But that should all STOP! we need to stop thinking about what we plan to say next after they finish saying what they gotta say. We should stop interrupting people. You never know..what they say could be a good idea or have a valid point.
Listening will improve your relationship 100%. Trust me..[well you dont have to] but still!!!
Just monitor yourself and I am sure you can see what you can improve on.
To improve listening: DO ask questions for clarifications, DON'T interrupt, DO listen to main ideas, and DO repeat information. Promise you, you'll see a difference!
I absolutely love being a communications major! It is definitely an eye opener and can improve your life much better! I am so aware of certain things and patterns now. I love actually using what I know in my everyday life..anyway!
JUST something to think about.
PEACE. LOVE.HAPPINESS.
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