With a little patience and a little faith! Things will work out how they are suppose to!
I finally got the biggest Blessing I could ask for during this time of my life and if I haven't learned anything else through this process, I learn that God works on His own time!
Love me,
B!
5.30.2011
5.29.2011
Rihanna - Question Existing
Hello loves! This song pretty much sums up the ever existing question! Who are you living for? You can take this is so many directions. Here is mine:
Live for no one but yourself! As my mother told me just yesterday: You can't be a people pleaser; only please yourself. With that being said, don't worry about what others think! Do what is best for you! This is something I really have a problem with, but from this day forward. I am living to please me!
Love me,
B!
5.28.2011
Theta Tau
I would like to thank the seven trailblazing charter members of Theta Tau! On this day, 40 years ago the Triumphant and Thunderous Theta Tau Chapter started the tradition of scholarship, sisterhood, and service! Thank you for all those who have came before me!
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Single and Ready to Mingle
This morning I went to church and my mother encouraged me to attend the Singles Ministry. This is where the pastor directly talks to the young adults about dating and marriage. Today's message was phenomenal! and exactly what I needed to hear. . .
We must be realistic when it comes to dating, especially if we are dating to marry. We all know there is a "honeymoon stage" to every relationship. But once that stage is over with the real work begins. When we first start talking to the other person look for concrete and realistic ideas. And remember!: the proof is in the pudding! If he/she talks a good game don't believe it until they can actually prove it. It is easy to be fooled by good talk, whether we realize it or not! Also, instead of talking about what kind of car, clothes, or other materialistic things a person may have, talk about how clean a person is. It is best to know those things. You don't want to get to far in a relationship and the moment you step inside their house your idea of him/her immediately changes. You don't want to get to far then realize they have a personal hygiene problem. And remember, if you don't have any interest in those you are dating, do not continue to date them. It is a waste of time and some one's feelings can get hurt.
So in short, make sure he/she walks the walk while they talk the talk &&&& be realistic! We all know life aint no fairy tale!
Also..do not be unequally yoke! And this can go for a lot of things. Do not try to make it work when you never were on the same page about things that are most valuable [i.e. religion, family, etc.]
Lastly, know where the seed came from. If you see that the person doesn't treat his mother or father right, what makes you think they will treat you right? If he/she comes from a broken home, will he/she really value the importance of family? If their family doesn't sit right with you, you shouldn't sit right with the one you are dating. Point blank. It's not to say that the person won't see your goal in life, but it will definitely be hard to change the perspective of that person when they grew up seeing something totally different than you.
These things are just a couple of things to marinate on and think about while you are dating! Dating is great, but don't let it waste your time and don't lose sight of your ultimate goal.
P.S.: Don't be vulnerable and quick to believe everything! I'm not saying have trust issues, but investigate and make sure that this person is truthful and honest. Because as my pastor says: devastation is a terrible feeling and it can be the lowest of the low if you allow yourself to get that far. If you are looking to marry, do not marry that person if they have not changed what you have wanted them to change before you say "I Do", because garuntee if they wasn't pleasing you before the ring, they sure won't please you after the ring! Do not let emotions run your relationship! Emotions aren't logical. If you must think, think logical and then add emotions.
Love me,
B!
We must be realistic when it comes to dating, especially if we are dating to marry. We all know there is a "honeymoon stage" to every relationship. But once that stage is over with the real work begins. When we first start talking to the other person look for concrete and realistic ideas. And remember!: the proof is in the pudding! If he/she talks a good game don't believe it until they can actually prove it. It is easy to be fooled by good talk, whether we realize it or not! Also, instead of talking about what kind of car, clothes, or other materialistic things a person may have, talk about how clean a person is. It is best to know those things. You don't want to get to far in a relationship and the moment you step inside their house your idea of him/her immediately changes. You don't want to get to far then realize they have a personal hygiene problem. And remember, if you don't have any interest in those you are dating, do not continue to date them. It is a waste of time and some one's feelings can get hurt.
So in short, make sure he/she walks the walk while they talk the talk &&&& be realistic! We all know life aint no fairy tale!
Also..do not be unequally yoke! And this can go for a lot of things. Do not try to make it work when you never were on the same page about things that are most valuable [i.e. religion, family, etc.]
Lastly, know where the seed came from. If you see that the person doesn't treat his mother or father right, what makes you think they will treat you right? If he/she comes from a broken home, will he/she really value the importance of family? If their family doesn't sit right with you, you shouldn't sit right with the one you are dating. Point blank. It's not to say that the person won't see your goal in life, but it will definitely be hard to change the perspective of that person when they grew up seeing something totally different than you.
These things are just a couple of things to marinate on and think about while you are dating! Dating is great, but don't let it waste your time and don't lose sight of your ultimate goal.
P.S.: Don't be vulnerable and quick to believe everything! I'm not saying have trust issues, but investigate and make sure that this person is truthful and honest. Because as my pastor says: devastation is a terrible feeling and it can be the lowest of the low if you allow yourself to get that far. If you are looking to marry, do not marry that person if they have not changed what you have wanted them to change before you say "I Do", because garuntee if they wasn't pleasing you before the ring, they sure won't please you after the ring! Do not let emotions run your relationship! Emotions aren't logical. If you must think, think logical and then add emotions.
Love me,
B!
5.26.2011
Who Says No?
Time in time again I see or hear people say these words: If you can't walk in heels, don't wear them.
But why not? ..Everyone who wants to wear fabulous heels should be able to! It just takes a little time and effort! So for those who are discourage because of people's comments or thought: who care's!?!
My suggestion to you is to start off small..then build your heel size and the frequency that you wear them.
For example, wear heels to church on Sunday then gradually wear heels to work or every time you go out. And if your goal is to wear heels every day of the week..well..go for it!
In honor of heels..Here are a few shoes that I like for the summer via Bakers and DSW.
But why not? ..Everyone who wants to wear fabulous heels should be able to! It just takes a little time and effort! So for those who are discourage because of people's comments or thought: who care's!?!
My suggestion to you is to start off small..then build your heel size and the frequency that you wear them.
For example, wear heels to church on Sunday then gradually wear heels to work or every time you go out. And if your goal is to wear heels every day of the week..well..go for it!
In honor of heels..Here are a few shoes that I like for the summer via Bakers and DSW.
Jessica Simpson..the color says it all! ..and might I personally say: Jessica always comes out with some Badd Shoes! kudos to you Jessica! :)
Now: we all know wedge heels are a girl's best friend in the summer!
I personally love this shoe! I wouldn't mind purchasing these AT ALL!
Basic nude pump! Nude is a must for summer!
Some "church shoes" I would think..but just lovely nonetheless!
Well. Just a few that you girl's can get a look at! I love shoes..now I just need the money to purchase some of these badd boys girls!
Love me,
B!
It's A New Day
..and I'm feeling good!
As I promised myself, this is summer, and it is time to start focusing on me and the things that I enjoy.
I decided I am going to spoil myself with my love. Simply because no one else will.
I purchased my first summer book..I am waiting for it to be shipped.
I'm telling you! I am going to enjoy myself this summer.
The next thing I am going to do is not worry about price tags. If I want it, I will get it!
Of course I am not going to live beyond my means..but I will get what I want! lol. but seriously!
So long, old Bianca. Hello B!
Love me,
B!
As I promised myself, this is summer, and it is time to start focusing on me and the things that I enjoy.
I decided I am going to spoil myself with my love. Simply because no one else will.
I purchased my first summer book..I am waiting for it to be shipped.
I'm telling you! I am going to enjoy myself this summer.
The next thing I am going to do is not worry about price tags. If I want it, I will get it!
Of course I am not going to live beyond my means..but I will get what I want! lol. but seriously!
So long, old Bianca. Hello B!
Love me,
B!
5.19.2011
Stop Fooling Yourself!
I wish people would understand..you CANNOT predict the future.
People should get tired of getting the "boo boo face" because their predictions fall short!
So..in saying that:
"No man knows the day nor the hour!"
Love me,
B!
People should get tired of getting the "boo boo face" because their predictions fall short!
So..in saying that:
"No man knows the day nor the hour!"
Love me,
B!
5.18.2011
May 18, 2011
Today, marks the day that I was born into this world.
..And though I am IN this world, I am not OF this world! :)
I am offically "legal"! I am 21 years old and I thank God that He has allowed me to see this day in my life!
Now..I'm not going to go all "holy" in this post because we all know what being 21 can do for you!
And I want to put a disclaimer out there.. I am a Christian.. and I strive to live the life that Christ wants Christians to live. However, I am young [which is not an excuse] so my life isn't what it should be and I am not where I should be in life. I put on no front for anyone. What I post is what I really feel..but as humans ..it is only natural to slip into temptations. But truth be told, I want to be as close to my Heavenly Father as possible.
So in short, I am saying I am not the poster child for Christianity, but I am learning so if you personally know me and then read my blogs, do not be confused or say that I am a hypocrite-- because I am not! :)
So again:
I am IN this world, not OF this world.
Love me,
B!
..And though I am IN this world, I am not OF this world! :)
I am offically "legal"! I am 21 years old and I thank God that He has allowed me to see this day in my life!
Now..I'm not going to go all "holy" in this post because we all know what being 21 can do for you!
And I want to put a disclaimer out there.. I am a Christian.. and I strive to live the life that Christ wants Christians to live. However, I am young [which is not an excuse] so my life isn't what it should be and I am not where I should be in life. I put on no front for anyone. What I post is what I really feel..but as humans ..it is only natural to slip into temptations. But truth be told, I want to be as close to my Heavenly Father as possible.
So in short, I am saying I am not the poster child for Christianity, but I am learning so if you personally know me and then read my blogs, do not be confused or say that I am a hypocrite-- because I am not! :)
So again:
I am IN this world, not OF this world.
Love me,
B!
5.17.2011
Help is On the Way
God Helps Those Who Help Themselves.
"Faith without works is dead."
Pretty much the same concept! ...
So don't be lazy and what you do.
Love me,
B!
"Faith without works is dead."
Pretty much the same concept! ...
So don't be lazy and what you do.
Love me,
B!
5.14.2011
Walking the Godly Path
Proverbs 16:7
7 When a man's ways please the Lord,he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.
It is important to remember to be repsectful and love even your enemies. Some people weren't raised the right way so to disrespect them gives no justice. If they see that you can still walk in love despite what they have done to you..then they have no choice but to like you and respect you. If your walkin in the way of the Lord..then like another scripture says: your enemies will become your footstool.
Love me,
B!
7 When a man's ways please the Lord,he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.
It is important to remember to be repsectful and love even your enemies. Some people weren't raised the right way so to disrespect them gives no justice. If they see that you can still walk in love despite what they have done to you..then they have no choice but to like you and respect you. If your walkin in the way of the Lord..then like another scripture says: your enemies will become your footstool.
Love me,
B!
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5.01.2011
Delta Sigma Theta
Hey loves! I'm back..well, sorta!
I crossed the illustrious sorority of Delta Sigma Theta last night!
So I am definitely enjoying that!
Sisterhood is a beautiful thing!
Well..now I have one week left of school so I am buckling down for that!
I will come back after that with exciting posts as well as some of my DST pictures!
But as my prophytes would say: the real work begins NOW!
Love me,
B!
I crossed the illustrious sorority of Delta Sigma Theta last night!
So I am definitely enjoying that!
Sisterhood is a beautiful thing!
Well..now I have one week left of school so I am buckling down for that!
I will come back after that with exciting posts as well as some of my DST pictures!
But as my prophytes would say: the real work begins NOW!
Love me,
B!
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