10.08.2010

Women being Degraded by Women

I already did a post on women being degraded by men. Now, it's time to talk about how women look down upon other women. As women, we should have some kind of connection with each other to know that certain things shouldn't be done.
For example: knowingly messing with another woman's man? That is like the cruelest thing I believe a woman can do to herself, to the man, and to the other woman. We all know that if the same thing happened to you it would have you heated in a minute.
Also, talking about women as they walk by. What's up with that?? Like seriously. Is it out of jealousy? I dont care if you don't like the girl for whatever reason may be. I hat gossiping. It's talking about someone just to talk. If you see something is wrong with the girl [weave showing, etc] just politely tell her instead of talking about it.
If you see that a girl is happy with whatever position she is in do not talk about the negative side of it. Just be happy for the girl! Like seriously.
We, as women, beat each other up so much it is no wonder men beat us up [not physically] as well. They have to see that we respect each other before they can fully respect us.
We, as women, should just uplift one another and walk in love.
It's enough hardship being a women, and to have other women scrutinize us is even worse.
I noticed that we don't even dress for ourselves or the men we want. We dress for each other. See who can outdress whoever. It doesn't need to be that way. Be happy with who you are and how you present yourself and then the men will pursue you in a much better way.
I just felt like the topic had to be addressed. I didn't necessarily have much to say about the subject. I just felt like something needed to be said.
B,

PS: I had my starbucks! But i think I imagined it to be better than how it was. You know how food goes? ;)

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